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12/16/96:
Same sex marriages should be...



Name:
Email: chinesetakeaway@hotmail.com
Response: All that i have to say is that it is not the government's right (nor is it anyone else's) to say who can and cannot get married. If two people are in love and want to get married, it is THEIR choice and THEIR right alone.



Name: Ondrea
Email:
Response: All of you people using the bible (that thing so mistranslated thru the centuries!!) against homosexuality remind me exactly why I don't want to be a Christian ญญ that good ol' Christian intolerance and hatred. Check the message you're sending to the world, Christians.



Name: B O P
Email: supa_ronn@hotmail.com
Response: It is no ones damn business. Ignorance and religious intolerance will not stop two people from getting married -- even if it means creating their own church. I am APPALLED that so-called christians are so full of hate when it comes to discussions of homosexuality. "Christ" was all about love, peace and understanding and if he were around today, would surely be disappointed with many "christians." Where the hell are all of the haters when children are being molested by heterosexuals, when racists are triumphing in our country and when the poor are told to drop dead? Wake up America! While you try to deny people of their own happiness, we are ALL going to hell!!!



Name: KLeonard
Email: k8wra@juno.com
Response: Same sex marriages---don't exist. There are only same sex relationships. I make no judgement about these arrangements. If it would left up to me they would just be laughed out of existence.



Name: Qwell
Email:
Response: While we all are fighting/arguing of what is right or what should be right. We should all remember that if we believe God to be who He says that He is ("I AM"), then we must realize without confusion or biased opinion that He does not make mistakes. And for this society to claim responsibility of same sex relationships confirms that we do not believe that God is "Almighty, The Holy One". We cannot claim to love God and in the same breathe go against what He has made clear. He did not need our input when He created the Heavens and Earth and all that dwells, so I am sure that He doesn't need nor have any tolerance for your self-definition of His creation and commandments. Please ask yourself, "Do you love yourself or others more than you love God?" If not, you will accept what He has done to be what is RIGHT!



Name: jvancollins.
Email: jv@acsu.buffalo.edu
Response: People go on and on about marriage being for procreation but they don't realize there are many people out there who do not even want to have children. Marriage in this era is about love and when you look close enough, economic benefits. You have tax breaks, joint accounts and hospital visitation rights when your loved ones are in the hospital. Without the benefit of marriage, persons in same sex unions cannot see the ones they love in the hospital. Let us move on to more important things like the levels of education our children are receiving in schools and leave people alone in their bedrooms.



Name: lorraine
Email: wanda@dnrcrd3.dnr.state.ga.us
Response: Let us pray. God is a merciful God and with sincere prayer perhaps he will forgive us and give us strength to help resist the real eneemy, who, by the way is not those good people who believe in their hearts that they are in love with someone of the same sex. I say NO to same sex marriages. Let us pray. Mark 10:6



Name: Terri Barnes
Email: terrib.gwis2.circ.gwu.edu
Response: You know what, I'm sick and tired of ignorant people. Why can't we all just accept each other and be happy for one another. Falling in love with another person (regardless of their gender) is a beautiful, wonderful, and DIVINE feeling. When two people want to express this love for each other (whether it be marriage or what have you) then I believe it should not only be allowed but embraced. There is so much hate and ignorance in this world that I just don't have the time to worry about what my neighbor is doing in his bedroom. Live and let live. By the way, for that person who said that being black was a burden, well I personally don't see being black as my downfall but as my uprising. Thank you.



Name: RuPaul
Email:
Response: God didn't create Adam and Eve. He created Adam and Yves. And don't forget that Jesus hung around with twelve men and no women.



Name:
Email: ReedsCrib@aol.com
Response: I disagree with same sex marriages. I'm surprised it is a topic today. I'm more convince how morally corrupt this society has become to even think about approving a Homosexual marriage. I believe this topic is another sign that the end is coming soon. However,one that does have this relationship should not be ostracize,but prayed for.



Name: Jesse
Email: Jessee@surfnetinc.com
Response: I am against same sex marriages because I am a firm believer that marriage was establish by God. He sanctioned male and female and instructed them to "be fruitful and multiply". This is impossible with same sex marriages. Anything else is against his word and I personally cannot except it.



Name: Frances Murphy
Email: FrankieLou@aol.com
Response: People in same sex relationships seem to be on the fringe of society. Their relationship somehow doesn't seem to be quite right. Most cannot stand up to the insults, snickers and sneers people and the just plain "I don't like you" that society dishes out. To be Black and in a same sex marraige is just one more burden added to an already burdened-down person. Same sex marriages are just not accepted in the every day world. The sad thing is that any child added to this union will be scarred for life. But,people have a tendency to do as they please so if they want this extra burden, let 'em have it.. Just don't drag the children into it.



Name: Theodore Austin
Email: fdvc76a@prodigy.com
Response: Marrage is one of the oldest instutions in human civilization. Its purpose has been to produce the next generation.of human beings.Any other arrangement is not marrage. If people want to enter into some other living arrangement based on their sexual behaviour thats fine . Lets call it something else and let the old institution remain what it was always ment to be, producing the best of the next generation.



Name: Juniee
Email: juniee@mnsinc.com
Response: It would seem to me that the question of same sex marriages, is basically a referendum on homsexuality. Those who feel O.K. or not oppposed to it would favor allowing marriage and those who think homosexuality is wrong are opposed to it. Discrimination aganinst homosexuals is just as bad as discrimination against blacks or women.



Name: David Sheppard
Email: dsheppard@tuna.net
Response: I feel that if all the (wasichus) were to marriages each the world would be a better place. But then this just my humble opinion.



Name: Curtis Plair Sr.
Email: Plair@MSN.Com
Response: "Same Sex" Marriages. This is not what God pre-supposed. This is counterclockwise thinking, which this is also neither normal nor natural. How can you possibly thrive and flourish, without the ability or inability there of, to reproduce? The thought is well beyond disgusting, and grosses me out!!



Name: james n.
Email: jjn@wp-lag.mindspring.com
Response: Why Not! Hell, if two men or two woman can be in love, then what's the next level of love, hmmmm..., a sheep and a man or even better a young child and a man or a woman and her pet ( dog, that is ). Because we believe, do, say, and love anything and everything. So it seems that love has no boudaries or claims. So we deserve the fate that we bring upon ourselves. Power to the gay-gene and gullible people, because propaganda and the devil are having a good time..... IN THE NAME OF LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



Name: JESSE
Email: jessee@surfnetinc.com
Response: Same sex marriages are a joke. Marriage is sanctioned by God and his instructions are to be fruiful and multiply. This cannot be done with same sex marriages. They should not be allowed and I question any minister that performs the ceremony.



Name: James John
Email: s9609050@studentwestgate.vut.edu.au
Response: Is Wrong and it will be always, people get a life God created Man and Women not a Man and Man



Name: Annette
Email:
Response: I say NO to same sex marriage! I think it's ok to love someone of the same gender, but marriage is taking it to another level. By saying that these marriages are acceptable is sending a message to younger generations (children) that this is what God intended and that is a lie! Children live by example and this would be a very bad example for them to live by.



Name: daze
Email:
Response: No, same sex marriage should not be legalized.Man is to be fruitful and multiply and same sex can't accomplish this.And besides it ranks right up there with other abominations,and I wouldn't want my children expose to it.



Name: Richard
Email: richard6394@aol.com
Response: If marriages must be sanctioned in the eyes of the Lord then atheists shouldn't be allowed to get married. This obviously is not the case. Religion has nothing to do with marriage (you can opt to be married by a civil servant), so this latest farce of outrage by the religious right is nothing more than a sham to cover-up of their own personal inadequacies. The only thing that screws up a marriage between two people is the relationship between those two people and not two other people (whatever their physiology) getting married. My advice to people who can't cope is to SNIFF UNDER YOUR OWN ARMPITS before you start accussing others of causing a stink.



Name: sah-lo
Email: ccrws@sunset.backbone.olemiss.edu
Response: I say no. GOD made Adam and Eve. GOD did not make Adam and Steve.



Name: fowens5
Email:
Response: no same sex marriages. this mean no children!



Name: Bendera
Email: Bendera@aol.com
Response: yes ,Yes. In a society that was once based upon the quality and apprecitaon of Marriage of two people making a life together we must must ok MARRIAGE. The anamialist trend of todays heterosexual population of sleeping around, shacking up so vividly in the media must stop!!



Name: clay
Email: keith@zeus.engr.siu.edu
Response: Whats next? I'm against the whole idea of same sex marriages. It seems ethically, morally and religiously wrong. This is just another addition to a corrupt society. I dont want to raise my future children up in a modern day sodom and Gamorrah. Now I know that this may be the same feelings that some of the white people felt when they opposed civil rights laws for blacks but I am against it. I thought the point of marriage was to purify a relationship in the sight of God with his annoiting. I dont think God is pleased with this so it seems to defeat the purpose. I've heard the point that marriage is for commitment but with the divorce rate so high and the rate of adulterous marriages so high, today marriage doesnt garuantee commitment. Remember the right to do so doesnt mean its right to do so.



Name: Jamie Heckman
Email: jlheckman@ucdavis.edu
Response: I'm all for it. Why should heterosexuals be the only ones who have the option to legally declare their lifelong love for someone, and also receive the $$ benefits of a marriage (ie. health insurance/medical benefits, tax benefits). Personally, I have a very negative outlook on marriage, being that most of the ones I know have ended up in divorce, but everyone should have the OPTION of getting married, whether male or female, white or black, straight or gay. Anyone who thinks otherwise should mind their own business and not bud into other people's lives.



Name: Matt Evans
Email: matt@afroam.org
Response: This question is about people who decide that they love one another so much that they are willing to commit to a life-long partnership. "Til death do us part" is a powerful phrase that represents an incredible journey of both heart and spirit. Anyone courageous enough to say these words and mean them deserves to enjoy their union free of persecution. Do we agree that many families and marriages today suffer from serious problems? Why deny Gays and Lesbians the right to declare their promises of faith and love? Some say that Gay people don't deserve to enter into the same sacred bond that Heterosexuals have been enjoying for centuries. Does the current sky-rocketing rate of failed marriages, divorce, marriage therapy, and spouse abuse really demonstrate that this sacred bond is being cherished by everyone legally involved? Let's not point fingers and say, "No, you can't do that!" How can honest love be a sin or a crime? Instead, let's recognize that the love that leads two people to share their hopes, fears, and dreams is something that is truly beautiful... no matter what their genders may be.